The Watchdog
January 2007 Vol. 16 No. 2 C.D. Hylton High School Woodbridge, VA
People just tend to judge
By Heather Gioia
Features Editor
Not everyone is the same, we all know this. Unique things make us different from each other and one of those things just so happens to be race.
Hylton has many biracial students walking the halls. You probably brush arms with them in the hall and maybe even work together on a project, but what is it really like being biracial?
Just about all biracial students love it; they say they get the best of both worlds.
“[It makes you] more tolerant. You have a better mix of beliefs, values, and traditions,” said junior Marisa Gidwani, who is Indian and Caucasian (of Italian and Spanish descent).
Having two cultural backgrounds opens these students up to different customs, foods, and holidays not common to everyone.
“For Thanksgiving, if we have twelve dishes, six will be African and six Italian,” explained Rachelle Cook, a freshman, who is Native American, African American, and Caucasian.
The majority of the biracial students at Hylton feel that same way. Being biracial merely gives them the opportunity to have more friends from different groups. It also gives students a different view of people when picking their friends.
“I fit in everywhere,” said junior Dillon Mayhew, who is African-American and Caucasian.
With all of the fun and the freedom being biracial provides it still has challenges. Gidwani explained how because her father married outside of his Indian race, his parents, whom are both Indian, do not accept her family.
“My dad’s family is not accepting of the biracial relationship at all. My mom’s family is more embracing. I see my mom’s parents and am closer with them because my dad’s [parents] see our family as dishonorable,” explained Gidwani.
For some students, everyday life is different because they are biracial. Typical holidays have an awkward twist, and evening dinner may consist of food not many people recognize. As students and part of the Bulldawg Family, everyone must do their best to embrace everyone and their backgrounds.
“In school, even here at Hylton, sometimes I feel a little bit of tension from kids of that one race [Indian], because I don’t really embrace just that one race,” Gidwani explained.
But not everyone follows the traditions or allows race to be a great factor on their lives; for some, race is just a category other people use to classify them and it doesn’t change what they do. It merely is just part of who they are.
“We don’t do anything that’s really white or black,” explained freshmen Ceila Thomas, “I don’t think of myself as a race. I’m just me.”